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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    We all know that older ladies and people in general often complain of things they actually enjoy. Again, this is not unequivocal evidence.
    I suppose men have to justify unwanted sexual aggression however they can.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heart View Post
    I suppose men have to justify unwanted sexual aggression however they can.
    You see what you intend to see. I am just humbly asking that you retain an open mind. It is rarely so simple as victim and victimizer. I am sure you know that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    You see what you intend to see. I am just humbly asking that you retain an open mind. It is rarely so simple as victim and victimizer. I am sure you know that.
    I am telling what they express. I don't pretend to know if they are lying or not. They felt harassed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heart View Post
    I am telling what they express. I don't pretend to know if they are lying or not. They felt harassed.
    I actually have occasion to spend some time in an assisted living center since someone I know manages a few. Typically the women there are very forward and occasionally outright indecent in their proposals to me. I have heard many the tale of a sordid and sexually charged atmosphere. Elderly ladies bed hopping... old lotharios on the prowl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    I actually have occasion to spend some time in an assisted living center since someone I know manages a few. Typically the women there are very forward and occasionally outright indecent in their proposals to me. I have heard many the tale of a sordid and sexually charged atmosphere. Elderly ladies bed hopping... old lotharios on the prowl.
    So because some women were forward with you, all the rest of them must be hungry for sexual aggression in return from men?

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    Quote Originally Posted by heart View Post
    So because some women were forward with you, all the rest of them must be hungry for sexual aggression in return from men?
    That is one interpretation I suppose, but unnecessarily cynical in its character.
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    Quote Originally Posted by heart View Post
    So because some women were forward with you, all the rest of them must be hungry for sexual aggression in return from men?
    Also, did you notice that you refer to their overtures as "forward" and men's as "sexual aggression"?

    Interesting.
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    Funny how it's always everyone else's cynicism that's unneccesary...

    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Ah, I misinterpreted your meaning. See. This is the problem I had with the INTP I dated. We both assumed the other said something they didn't really say. Huge communication hurdles and it never got better. I wonder why this is?
    INTPs are inclined to overestimate the intelligence of others.
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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Morgan Le Fay View Post
    Funny how it's always everyone else's cynicism that's unneccesary...
    She was misinterpreting my statements. So, while I have no problem with cynicism it was misplaced and an obstacle to mutual understanding, which is the project here.

    And, you never did answer my questions. Nor did you decline to answer, which is more telling.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Also, did you notice that you refer to their overtures as "forward" and men's as "sexual aggression"?

    Interesting.
    I consider both being too forward and being too aggressive the same thing.

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