Let me disavow you of that notion right now. Which madmin actually performs an action isn't really an indication of who discussed or brought up an issue. My mantra is that hostility is this forum's kryptonite so I'm very in favor of managing hostility proactively. I know you're going to respond that you're not being hostile, and I completely believe that, but your tone changes the tone of the threads you participate in, very frequently.
This place was made to be a less contentious, all-types, welcoming forum alternative to INTPc. We very deliberately groom it so that it stays that way.