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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    I believe I've proclaimed the heat in the freezer many times on this board... ^_^
    probably better than getting accused of "needing to open your heart up and get hurt because you look like an ice queen" by some random guy in a bar!

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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    probably better than getting accused of "needing to open your heart up and get hurt because you look like an ice queen" by some random guy in a bar!
    You know what, I'm gonna let you in on something -- I've been called mean, cold, surly, stuck-up and unrelenting by men who wanted something outta me, and yes, sometimes by an idiot in a bar that I wasn't stepping to. Next time that happens, you thank the man for alerting you to his social leprosy and be on your way. Don't let them get into your head. And just remember what Johnny Rotten said about "nice" -- Nice is an insult reserved for powerless impotent people. (I happen to consider "nice" to be more than that, including a good thing, but in this case, use it to your advantage.)
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    Honestly, I prefer dealing with the women who other guys call icy bitches; they tend to let me be an introvert instead of needing me to gab all the time.

    Edit: and they tend to talk about things that are more interesting...
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    Johnny Rotten! (weirdly, the song that cheers me up the most is Who Killed Bambi!)

    Glad to know that I'm not the only one insulted needlessly when out and about! (seriously! I was just sitting there sipping a cranberry juice and vodka- not even being mean to anyone!)

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    I don't pick up in bars; the girls that would pick me up end up desperate and full of the wrong kind of trouble. Need to pick up more venues though, my current three fun things I do are full of only the taken kind or none at all...
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    desperate?!? you need some sort of self esteem boost!

    I don't pick people up at bars because I'm deadly afraid of some disease and anyone who's trying to pick me up has told me that I look like a fun one night stand! (really- who says that to someone?!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    Johnny Rotten! (weirdly, the song that cheers me up the most is Who Killed Bambi!)
    I like "God Save the Queen" and bellowing really loud when it gets to the "fascist regime" part. lol I mean it, MAAAAAAAAAAAAN!

    Glad to know that I'm not the only one insulted needlessly when out and about! (seriously! I was just sitting there sipping a cranberry juice and vodka- not even being mean to anyone!)
    Throwing guilt trips on strange women -- yeah, Dude is alone for a reason.
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    I don't pick people up at bars because I'm deadly afraid of some disease and anyone who's trying to pick me up has told me that I look like a fun one night stand! (really- who says that to someone?!)
    Geez!!! Where do all these numbnuts find you?!
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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    desperate?!? you need some sort of self esteem boost!
    I mean the girls are desperate, in the excessivly clingy annoying way. I suppose I can come off a little desperate though; not fun being lonely, but I try to deal with it appropreately.

    I don't pick people up at bars because I'm deadly afraid of some disease and anyone who's trying to pick me up has told me that I look like a fun one night stand! (really- who says that to someone?!)
    And see, that's the last thing I'm looking for at the bar; the girl there that I'll be sleeping with that night is the girl I brought there in the first place.
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    Sex Pistols are a great Screw-The-Man band!

    College town bars are creepy- and for some odd reason they always approach me and leave my friends alone! (I only attract assholes!)

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