probably better than getting accused of "needing to open your heart up and get hurt because you look like an ice queen" by some random guy in a bar!
You know what, I'm gonna let you in on something -- I've been called mean, cold, surly, stuck-up and unrelenting by men who wanted something outta me, and yes, sometimes by an idiot in a bar that I wasn't stepping to. Next time that happens, you thank the man for alerting you to his social leprosy and be on your way. Don't let them get into your head. And just remember what Johnny Rotten said about "nice" -- Nice is an insult reserved for powerless impotent people. (I happen to consider "nice" to be more than that, including a good thing, but in this case, use it to your advantage.)
eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
EII-Fi subtype, Ethical/Empath, Delta/Beta
AIS Holland code
I don't pick up in bars; the girls that would pick me up end up desperate and full of the wrong kind of trouble. Need to pick up more venues though, my current three fun things I do are full of only the taken kind or none at all...
Dreams are best served manifest and tangible.
INFP, 6w7, IEI
I accept no responsibility, what so ever, for the fact that I exist; I do, however, accept full responsibility for what I do while I exist.