I'm curious about what the people who cast actors take into account when choosing gay actors to portray womanizers almost every time (like Neil Patrick Harris as Barney Stinson, or Matt Bomer as Neal Caffrey, just to name some examples).
MBTI: INTP (though I'm PINT-sized) * Ti = Ne > Fi > Ni > Si > Te = Se >>> Fe Enneagram: 5w4 - 4w5 - 1w9 sp/sx * 5 > 4 > 1 > 8 > 3 > 6 > 7 > 9 > 2 Socionics: LII - Ne SLOAN: Rc|U|EI Holland Code: AIE Temperament: Melancholic/Choleric House: Slytherin Oldham's: Idiosyncratic/Solitary
Omnis res est se ipsa singularis et per nihil aliud
I don't know you well, so this is a stock answer: because you enable them.
In general, people who have their shit together attract people who aren't good at keeping their shit together. The people who have their shit together cannot stand having shit in their lives, so they tend to clean up both their own shit and the shit of people around them, without regard to whose shit it is. If most people of a group have this attitude, it actually works well: people proactively taking care of shit as needed. If it's just one person with this attitude, everyone else around that person will take advantage of it.
An argument is two people sharing their ignorance.
A discussion is two people sharing their understanding, even when they disagree.