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Thread: Random Thought Thread
06-28-2016, 07:58 PM #64351Don't hate me because I'm right and you're not.
06-28-2016, 08:09 PM #64352
Introspective to a Fault: INFJ and Enneagram Types Six and Four
That quote makes sense to me as the majority of INFJ's I have met throughout the Internet in my experience type themselves as 6. (It was mostly on fb, making me think they were ISFJ's)
Have you changed your mind about my enneatype? :gasp:This signature is supposed to be cute and charismatic right?
06-28-2016, 08:12 PM #64353This signature is supposed to be cute and charismatic right?
06-28-2016, 08:22 PM #64354
I have always thought INFJ to be much more on the zen calm side, than the flighty side. In truth, I've always found it hard to buy INFJ correlating to anything but 1, 4, 5 and 9 because of that (among other things).
Also @Starry I'm with you on the fact that people rarely mistype as 6's. Loyalists often mistype as quite a variety of other things though, because of their indecision and skepticism.
06-28-2016, 08:39 PM #64355
Thank you. And thank you for knowing that this would be interesting to me.
I should include here that while we may pursue different internets...part of what may be the discrepancy here for me is that in my mind most of the INFJs on the internet are not, in fact, INFJs. I will read the article when I get...somewhere else...and will see if this alters my thinking some in this regard but just that first verse I quoted caused me to close my mind.
And yes, at least as of right now, I do still believe you are 6w5cp
*scandalous*لا تستطيع كسر المكسور
06-28-2016, 10:52 PM #64356
Real quick - I'm not familiar with Sigilkitty...the blogger that wrote this article... But what I can say is that I don't share their understanding of e6 to begin with [edit: as it pertains to the NFJ]. This person seems to be overfocusing on authority...and while I've never met an INFJ...regardless of e-point that doesn't keep a constant eye on authority...the issue goes far deeper than that in my mind and isn't even remotely isolated to individual fear. To the contrary...I think many INFJs do not fear for themselves but for others.
The primary fear is exploitation. How easy it is for people to be eaten alive by a system and no one can stop it from happening because no one sees it... but the INFJ. That to me all INFJs...but 6w5cp...and a small fraction of INFJs that are 8s will be the most vocal and/or combative here.
So in the end... Sigilkitty did nothing to change my thinking.لا تستطيع كسر المكسور
06-28-2016, 11:04 PM #64357
06-28-2016, 11:07 PM #64358
@small.wonder I don't think it's Ni that gives the high anxiety. It's the sensitive inferior Se picking everything up.
5's are also very anxious types. So you might want to throw it out too if you think INFJ's are non anxious as well.
You also need to remember that there is Fe and they tend to bleed out more. We need to forget the tv and movie examples of INFJ's. They're fictional characters. (Not saying that's what you were focusing on but I think people can idealize INFJ's and INTJ's to that extent.) we're stranger than fiction.
4's feel fundamentally different so the outcast isn't pleasant. I cannot think any enneatype but 9 (even then internally with them ) where anxiety of some sort doesn't play a role. Each of the 9 types has a fear. Fear manifests itself in anxiety.This signature is supposed to be cute and charismatic right?
06-28-2016, 11:33 PM #64359
Yesterday, my first day on the sales floor, I dropped a can of baby food prunes. Another associate said it wasn't a big deal. I freaked out for a couple seconds, and then quietly chuckled.
Because, you know, it's prunes.Do what your younger self never thought she could do.
Be who she always dreamed of being.
Darling, make that little girl proud.
2w3 // 6w7 // 9w1
06-29-2016, 08:46 AM #64360
I'm not sure I'm even familiar with fictitious character examples of INFJ, I usually avoid the famous people/characters examples because half the time I don't know who they are.
In truth, I'm thinking about the few INFJs that I know who have a firm grasp on MBTI, and who don't exploit it for their own purposes-- @Ene for example, or @fidelia. And second, I think about how often my calmness is commented on by others IRL, and in situations where everyone is freaking out, I am usually not.
In fact, this has often been a point I've noted about 6+7 friends, that they feel like they have a strong sense of intuition that is actually skepticism and fear. Intuition and skepticism cannot coexist in my logic, they're just opposites. I do see how anxiety-fueled suspicion can masquerade as intuition though-- making the suspicious person feel like they know this person is ______________. I tend to compare it to McCarthyism, red-scare stuff. That's anxiety, not intuition.