I guess the 3's thing is that they work very hard at maintaining their image and will not stop working. When I get depressed I procrastinate I imagine and I curl up sometimes just sulking unnecessarily. I even get aware to the point of why am I doing this and then I just stare into blank space.
When I was in 5th grade I acted goofy so that all the guys liked me and they did but that was only for one year and idk wtf was up with middle school but suddenly I was a hero to a zero.
So I could be a 3 without having to work tirelessly? I think about others all the time. I even thought if I had to go back and redo high school, I would've taken drama classes.
Ok you're starting to sound real convincing ingrids but so was another member at vent last night saying I was a core 9. Although for most times as a 9 I don't relate to 8 or 1 really except when I get into certain moods.
I guess my perfectionistic is to impress others and not really for myself. I could care less what I think if everyone else is loving it. But still needs to be authentic. Like I'd hate to be liked for something over popularized like Star Wars because it's then that not really me. Also I do agree I have narcissistic tendencies but definitely not a narcissist myself.
I always felt like I could flip the switch and get people to love me but at the end of the day it was my goal to get people to like me for who I truly was and I would go on in depression for the sake of it and avoid all those who liked the image of me but rather those that loved me for who I was.
I did also tend to go for women who dressed well or were good looking and fit a cool personality type. Although when I was younger I was too needy or desperate to get them to like me. It wasn't until I was college age I could master the personality of a suave man but it feels so unnatural.
Thread: Random Thought Thread
05-31-2016, 09:27 AM #63781obviously you're going to get nothing from reading this
05-31-2016, 09:31 AM #63782
I need to relearn photoshop. After a year of not having a laptop, this is really getting to me. It took me three freaking hours to do such a simple signature!E2 - Eb4 - E5
05-31-2016, 09:57 AM #63783
05-31-2016, 10:01 AM #63784Do what your younger self never thought she could do.
Be who she always dreamed of being.
Darling, make that little girl proud.
2w3 // 6w7 // 9w1
05-31-2016, 10:02 AM #63785
05-31-2016, 10:14 AM #63786
- Join Date
- Sep 2009
- 9w1 sx/sp
- EII Fi
@Forever, I think that both e3 and e9 really want to be liked and validated, and both are sensitive to signals (perhaps too sensitive) when they feel they are not receiving this. However, the reactions of these types to the discomfort of that situation is quite different. I think that e9s will tend to withdraw, disappear, disengage. e3s on the other hand will try harder, sometimes to their own detriment. As both types (or all types, really) get older, we care less about these things, and it becomes less of a concern all together.
I have trouble seeing you as an e9 because of the emphasis on avoidance, disengagement, "checking out," that I think it pretty integral to the way that e9s cope with stress. I have seen you become more testy at times when under threat or stress.
I don't know enough about e4 to be much of a further help on whether you are 3w4 vs. 4w3.
05-31-2016, 12:46 PM #63787
also i'm the last post in the rant thread dunno what i ranted about and sure i could go look but i'd rather believe that whatever i ranted about was so good that i ended all rants.
05-31-2016, 01:07 PM #63788
I always felt that I need to do what was done as I got older because I started to see people around me as more lazy and incompetent but I knew I was too in some aspects, definitely in school. Not that I couldn't learn because given the resources and my devotion to the subject anything is possible although I may take longer than some but once I got that subject down I was a master at it.
I could still be a 3. The integration to a 6 and disintegration to a 9 is interesting. Then there's the 4 integrating to a 1 and distintegrating to a 2.
They both seem plausible to me. What's weird is that I tend to stick to sexual things more when I am either feeling on top of the world or just want my life to waste away and forget about it all. I'm also young so maybe that isn't a factor but idk I seem to pride on authenticity whenever I can even as I said before detriment to my social standing.
Did I forget to mention I love animals?!
I hug dogs and cats and scratch them and animals can't stop following me around. I love them because they are so lovable. That's pretty 9 lol. And yet I am not a vegan.
Some people say I should be a veterinarian.obviously you're going to get nothing from reading this
05-31-2016, 01:22 PM #63789
I've been mistaken for having 8 in my tri type but I really think I have cp 6 which can easily be mistaken for 8. I don't think i lead with cp 6 but i'm up for cases if people think i do, but i think my tritype is some combination of 964Perfectly robust chickens
Run laps a lot
Pee on the garden
Leap over fences
Cock is a word for rooster
Hen is a type of chicken?
Kit kats are good
Nice chickens don't belong in the
05-31-2016, 01:28 PM #63790
Random Thought Thread
I think it's useful to always have a space for cautiousness of who we trust, don't think of it as we're supposed to "doubt" people, obviously we can never know what intentions people have, it's more of a general rule that we need to follow to protect ourselves..