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    I will soon be trading typology and library/information science discussion for surf lessons with an ex Big Wave surfer. Too good to be true, but it is.
    "There is no god; there is only us. Savage and fragile."
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    I remember this one time I was talking to invisible Jim an INTJ in vent (way back in 2010?) about evil master plans for world domination and I posed the question: what type would your chief of staff be? He responded quickly, "that's easy, ESTJ". Oh I replied, why? He then effortlessly broke it down for me in MBTI terms using 'generalizations' but good ones. In that moment I realized that INTJ evil mastermind stereo types are TRUE. Mostly
    "The most merciful thing in the world, I think, is the inability of the human mind to correlate all its contents... Some day the piecing together of dissociated knowledge will open up such terrifying vistas of reality, and of our frightful position therein, that we shall either go mad from the revelation or flee from the light into the peace and safety of a new Dark Age. " - H.P. Lovecraft
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    If you ever hear me bringing the same person up in conversation in a negative light, that probably means I don't like them all that much. Sounds obvious right? Well I just realized that because my Ne/Fi is RELENTLESS in seeking out the good in people and basically turning any enemy in my mind into some saint (not actually to that extreme), I find that I almost have to physically remind myself why I hated them at one point by bringing them up in conversation since whenever I bring up anything or run into some trigger, the emotions felt at the time immediately come rushing back.

    It's almost to a point where I find this default forgiveness mode a "defect". Sometimes I really want to stay mad at someone, but I really, really can't.

    Any other NFPs run into this?? Maybe it's an Ne/Fi thing but it could be Fi/Ne as well I'd guess.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Enthusiastic_Dreamer View Post
    If you ever hear me bringing the same person up in conversation in a negative light, that probably means I don't like them all that much. Sounds obvious right? Well I just realized that because my Ne/Fi is RELENTLESS in seeking out the good in people and basically turning any enemy in my mind into some saint (not actually to that extreme), I find that I almost have to physically remind myself why I hated them at one point by bringing them up in conversation since whenever I bring up anything or run into some trigger, the emotions felt at the time immediately come rushing back.

    It's almost to a point where I find this default forgiveness mode a "defect". Sometimes I really want to stay mad at someone, but I really, really can't.

    Any other NFPs run into this?? Maybe it's an Ne/Fi thing but it could be Fi/Ne as well I'd guess.
    I could see this being a strong-Ne, weak-Si problem. I personally have the opposite problem, and it takes me an inconveniently long time to forgive people -- and I know that's due to strong Si.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cloudpatrol View Post
    I will vacuum like a fiend and put her away (with catnip and a blanket animal lovers, I'm not heartless!) while we talk

    Mmmmm, what's in the cuppa? Nope, that thought won't go away (gets up to put kettle on).

    But I can't have *too* many, else they won't all fit into that little box on my homepage. I don't want to lose anyone's picture from there!

    I can't define exactly WHAT it is, but that line feels like a heart-grabbingly-wonderful snapshot of true friendship. Hope we get to talk more.
    Aw. Happy to chat anytime. :-)
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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    I could see this being a strong-Ne, weak-Si problem. I personally have the opposite problem, and it takes me an inconveniently long time to forgive people -- and I know that's due to strong Si.
    Oh that's interesting you say that! I believe it was @Cloudpatrol that mentioned she saw a weaker Si within me? How would one go about strengthening their Si would you say? I feel I'm actually in the middle of developing my Te come to think about it.
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    Welp, just crushed the soul of an ESTJ chasing me like I was the goddamn Beatles. Feel free to tell me he's going to be fine because I feel like a shitbag.
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    Quote Originally Posted by iwakar View Post
    Welp, just crushed the soul of an ESTJ chasing me like I was the goddamn Beatles. Feel free to tell me he's going to be fine because I feel like a shitbag.
    He's going to be fine.
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    Today, my alarm clock was my doorbell being spammed by FedEx to deliver me a vacuum cleaner.
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    so/sx: Good at connecting, bad at maintaining connection.

    Accurate?
    Quote Originally Posted by Nørrsken impersonating EJCC
    It's strange. I keep banning morons, but they keep signing up? What is this?
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