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    cleaning the house because every older female relative I have on my mom's side pretty much is descending upon it and without a doubt preparing to criticize my housekeeping skills tomorrow

    why is it that I'm in my 30s and I STILL fear their disapproval of my ways (to the point where I'll be wearing long sleeves because I don't feel like getting more "you got MORE tattoos?!" comments from them)?

    is this something that shall never be outgrown?


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    Quote Originally Posted by 21lux View Post
    Ok. But my therapy appointment starts in 10 minutes so I won't be here too long.
    Oh! mine starts in an hour... blah. And then I have to get my blood drawn again to figure out wtf is going on with my triglycerides... I mean god from my levels you would think that I should be on the biggest loser. Im like gunna get heart disease and die and blah blah blah.

    Ugh my professor is giving a really sexist lecture about how annoying women are and how we all do this and that and it makes no sense and i want to stand up and say NO SIR! No no no. How women need more information when men just want to know the answer- how men are better at tests. The test thing is true on the whole-generally in the greater pop- but I do ok on tests... I can guess as well as any guy damn it. So there are exceptions- that isnt the rule! Averages shmaverages.

    Anyways glad you are going to therapy, feel free to pm me if you ever want.
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    Confused at the fact why I can't make a move on a lady. :/

    Rejection is simple, I've been through it plenty of times. Why when even more confident than ever can't I just ask her on a date?

    Here are some fears:

    1. The minor who could look like an adult.

    a. Asking how someone how old they are is a little rude especially if you're talking to a stranger right?
    2. She could make it more awkward around everyone should either happen.
    a. Like even if I got accepted, I'm holding back the line if I ask a cashier at work. If I got rejected, all her co-workers would be all awkward around me too.
    3. She believes that a date is more than a date.
    a. Where I'm at in conservative college town, people date to get married here all the time. ._. Not that it's bad and maybe I plan on being married too, but I'm not like let's date for 3 months and then get engaged sort of guy.
    Cause I can't stay

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frosty View Post
    Oh! mine starts in an hour... blah. And then I have to get my blood drawn again to figure out wtf is going on with my triglycerides... I mean god from my levels you would think that I should be on the biggest loser. Im like gunna get heart disease and die and blah blah blah.

    Ugh my professor is giving a really sexist lecture about how annoying women are and how we all do this and that and it makes no sense and i want to stand up and say NO SIR! No no no. How women need more information when men just want to know the answer- how men are better at tests. The test thing is true on the whole-generally in the greater pop- but I do ok on tests... I can guess as well as any guy damn it. So there are exceptions- that isnt the rule! Averages shmaverages.

    Anyways glad you are going to therapy, feel free to pm me if you ever want.
    GOOD LUCK AT YOURS!!! I just got home from mine and it was AWESOME. Hey we should go on vent sometime. But I have class tonight at 6 (which is 8 for you) so blah. THIS WEEKEND. Or maybe tomorrow even. Yes. I've decided.
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    I wonder if they could write a TV series called Celts which would be as awesome as the TV series Vikings

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    Quote Originally Posted by 21lux View Post
    GOOD LUCK AT YOURS!!! I just got home from mine and it was AWESOME. Hey we should go on vent sometime. But I have class tonight at 6 (which is 8 for you) so blah. THIS WEEKEND. Or maybe tomorrow even. Yes. I've decided.
    Ive CO-Decided. And we are inviting people too. It is going to be a party. @whatever will be there I have also decided. And there will be other surprise guests as well.

    And my therapy was meh. But Im doing well apparently so thats always nice to know.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frosty View Post
    Ive CO-Decided. And we are inviting people too. It is going to be a party. @whatever will be there I have also decided. And there will be other surprise guests as well.

    And my therapy was meh. But Im doing well apparently so thats always nice to know.
    you do realize that the easiest way to get me NOT to be somewhere is to say that I will, right?
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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    you do realize that the easiest way to get me NOT to be somewhere is to say that I will, right?
    Ooh ooh let me try!

    Yes I do think that is true.

    (So now that means it isn't true, and or that you do not think it is true, which means that you will come tonight because you will try to prove me wrong when I say its true with my reverse psychology-yup)

    Ive got this signed, sealed, under wraps, and pretty packaged under the tree.

    Yay! Whatever wilntl be there!

    (Please pretend this makes absolutely perfect sense, gracias)

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    Hahahahaha, dirtbag, you came to the wrong trench

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frosty View Post
    Ooh ooh let me try!

    Yes I do think that is true.

    (So now that means it isn't true, and or that you do not think it is true, which means that you will come tonight because you will try to prove me wrong when I say its true with my reverse psychology-yup)

    Ive got this signed, sealed, under wraps, and pretty packaged under the tree.

    Yay! Whatever wilntl be there!

    (Please pretend this makes absolutely perfect sense, gracias)
    whatever
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