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    Quote Originally Posted by Kullervo View Post
    This is going to seem like a crazy comment, but I want to ask the question: have we finally given up on true love?

    Every time two people meet each other other, they're afraid. There is a residual feeling of what could go wrong which didn't exist in past generations. I have tried to express this myself but it makes me sad, it makes me despair. Why can't we just throw our lives aside for someone else? What is holding us back? Often I feel like an alien in a world where everyone is afraid of what I'm looking for. Cowards. Pussies. Does anyone have a heart anymore?

    I live in a world which is turning into shit and if you can't see that, you are part of the problem. Bring out the guns and the sabers. At least I can die for something I believe in Nobody believes in love anymore.

    Why can't we just...understand each other again? Get your fucking act together and listen for once instead of being a self-righteous prick.
    Yesterday in my office I sat with an infj wounded soul. She is 24 and has a history of rape and molestation at a young age. She says she suffers from ptsd. She has been living on her own since she was 16 and is a (good) single mother of two children, expecting another.

    She cried and cried to me because she has this awesome bf (baby in tummy's daddy) and he is a rare good guy, unlike all the other men she has known. She is happy and thankful to have such goodness in her life. He is great with her kids and they want to call him 'dad'.

    The problem is she can't get her mind around all this goodness. She can't accept that she can actually rely on someone and that someone loves her. She feels unworthy of love and affection. Instead of feeling relief, she feels stress. She is habitually afraid old patterns will magically repeat themselves with this guy (even though everything is completely different this time around).

    We had a really good session. I notice I am somewhat of a dogged counselor style. I don't like to do a lot of open-ended questions that will just waste everyone's time. I mean, I don't think it's good to give a lot of airtime to feelings when feelings are so often fucked up anyway. Voice them, yes, but move on to the why and the how and the what now. I sent her home with the task of doing something special for her bf that night, since she has been in her own head waaayyyy too much, and he has been like, "Whoa, what is wrong??"


    Anyway, as the world heads toward endtimes and evil gains more ground, souls will feel more and more like this. It is the lie the enemy wants you to believe: you are unworthy of love.

    Which simply isn't true. If you were unworthy of love, you wouldn't be here.
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    ... this doctor's office doesn't allow you to leave voicemails.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crabs View Post
    C'mon. Spoilers, man.

    I didn't know that there were light sabers in that movie
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    Give this a listen, its some friends of mine who are in a band, the vocalist was at uni with me. I love it and I love the theme of the road home, return and travelling.

    The instruments are damn fine too.
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    i cant believe we have a bible-pushing dominatrix who beats her children on typology central dot com
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kullervo View Post
    This is going to seem like a crazy comment, but I want to ask the question: have we finally given up on true love?

    Every time two people meet each other other, they're afraid. There is a residual feeling of what could go wrong which didn't exist in past generations. I have tried to express this myself but it makes me sad, it makes me despair. Why can't we just throw our lives aside for someone else? What is holding us back? Often I feel like an alien in a world where everyone is afraid of what I'm looking for. Cowards. Pussies. Does anyone have a heart anymore?
    How do you know these concerns did not exist in past generations? It is only in recent times that people have married for love at all. Previously matches were made on the basis of more practical considerations: politics, family connections, land allocation, etc. Even today, young girls in many places are married off to much older men, as part of family bargains sometimes made before they were born. There is no love in this. It is love that often overrides those distinctions of culture and ethnicity that you prefer to see maintained. If you place "true love" first, then everything else must be secondary.

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    If the Republic would just ban lightsabers from the universe then Sith Lords would no longer be able to use them. Problem solved!
    Lightsabers don't kill people; people kill people.
    I've been called a criminal, a terrorist, and a threat to the known universe. But everything you were told is a lie. The truth is, they've taken our freedom, our home, and our future. The time has come for all humanity to take a stand...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    i cant believe we have a bible-pushing dominatrix who beats her children on typology central dot com
    We have a nice variety here.
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