yes i am way more selfish on the forum. but that doesn't mean i don't think about others. i send reps, i reply to people, i write on their walls. just because i say i doesn't mean i'm completely selfish. but of course you apply pop psychology to problems and think it's one size fits all so you would fall into that trap.
Well, I can only judge you on what I can see here infont of me, sadly.
If you're selfish here, then you're selfish here. You can't expect me to judge you outside here. If you're different, then fair enough.