'Consciousness is not simply a sensory-perceptual affair, a matter of mental imagery, as the contents of our mind would have us believe. It is deeply enmeshed with the brain mechanisms that automatically promote action readiness' - Jaak Panksepp
Wish people would realize when they throw a fit because you did something wrong, the next time the situation happens and they joke about it they will be the only one laughing. The other will just roll their eyes and contemplate doing it again a just to watch the other person bitch and show who they really are.
On the other hand, they don't bitch and next time it will be just more of a playful thing. Something to banter about like playful fighting/arguing. The best things to argue about are the ones that don't matter because those are the ones where neither take seriously, it's just playful/fun bantering
Take what I say with a grain of salt, because that's all it is compared to the ocean of complexity when it comes to actions and real life.