This will be very blunt, but I've been holding my tongue for diplomacy's sake for some time now.
I'm not sure what to make of your motivations here. If you feel that you made a mistake, but do not wish to admit it, that is fine. You do not have to. I am willing to let bygones be bygones. Mistakes happen. Tempers flare. This can all be water under the bridge (although it will probably be easier if this cuts both ways).
The other thing I can think of is that you somehow think this will break me. It will not. I have faced worse things in my life than this; I would not even place this in the top 10. While I do think that there is potential over there, and there are many people I like, ultimately, I'll live without it. If you hope to punish me for some unspecified sin or unmentioned slight; it will not work. If this is the case, I would prefer that you man up and discuss it with me directly instead of pretending that it isn't personal, though. At the very least, I would like to hear from you what you would have me do, that would satisfy you. And yes, I require more information than "stop causing disturbances."
Lastly, you need not worry about me stealing your woman. I have no interest in her, and this would hold even if I was single. My relationship needs are very different from your relationship needs. They are peculiar, admittedly, but I will make sacrifices to obtain them, and would not trade what I have for someone who I do not think can meet them. My choices are not better or worse than yours. They are just different. Relax. There is no need to be jealous; I do not want your position or your lady. Attempts to engage in conversation were meant on a strictly friendly basis. I was not aware that doing such a thing was against the rules.
Forget the dead you've left; they will not follow you.
The vagabond who is rapping at your door, is standing in the clothes you once wore.