@Qlip @Skinny-Love You are both correct really. She does things for me in a clingy, self serving way that desires to get love back as payment for her "giving". She would leave greeting cards on my desk like every week and write about having a bad week or what she needed from me-- selfishness masked in goodwill. She's 2w3, quite self deceptive and often takes the child role, putting responsibility for her needs on others (including fault for whatever goes wrong.
She seriously had a meltdown yesterday b/c her car got plowed in (we had a blizzard) b/c she decided not to move it for the past two days. She demanded to know if I'd seen what "they did to her". When I said that's actually pretty normal, and that a plow can't really get around a parked car (refusing to validate her view of herself as a victim), she blew up at me with a flurry or entitled reasons why someone should have shoveled her car out!
It's amazing. I digress, but cannot comprehend people who believe that the world owes them something.