Gosh, I really love ENFJs.
Every time I meet an ENFJ in real life, I just seemed to click wonderfully with them. One of my colleagues is an ENFJ for example, and the first time I met her, it was instant comfort and familiarity and we were clinging to each other like best friends in the workplace even though it was the first time we saw each other lmao.
HOWEVER, whenever I am around ENFJs, I often find myself struggling to know how they truly felt about me.
One thing that I learnt about ENFJs though is their friendliness is only a surface mask, so it's unlikely you will ever know how they truly feel about you.
To you, they might be your friend. But to them, you might only be an acquaintance.
Anyway, I find it hilarious when my ENFP coworker asked my ENFJ coworker, "So I am your friend right?" and the ENFJ said, "Yes."
To the ENFP, the yes might really mean yes, but to an ENFJ, the yes might mean, "I am afraid of offending you."
And yes ENFJs, I have been observing you guys for a long time, and I know what makes you guys tick