Embracing the unpleasantness, not a conscious element, but the inherent unpleasantness that is myself.
Or whoever is currently inhabiting *insert identity here*.
"An upsidedown wire heart
Being sucked into a periscope
Still the mind is dull
Like you need another excuse"
… a theory is primarily a form of insight, i.e. a way of looking
at the world, and not a form of knowledge of how the world is….
.. all our different ways of thinking are to be considered as
different ways of looking at the one reality, each with some
domain in which it is clear and adequate…. - David Bohm
I love people who are reliable, and so far, the most reliable people I met in my life always turned out to be either INTJ, INFJ, or ENFJ.
Seems like people who are reliable often possess a strong Te or strong Fe.
Although websites often mentioned that ENFP is INFJ's best match, but I disagree.
I know 3 ENFPs and all 3 of them have this flakey tendencies in them, making plans with me and then cancelling plans with me last minute, and this happens multiple times too.
I don't buy the theory that ENFP Is INFJ's best match, I personally think that xNFJ and INTJ is the best for INFJs, I need a strong Fe or Te type, someone who keep their word and doesn't flake out on plans as and when they like.