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    Quote Originally Posted by Kullervo View Post
    Stop there.

    Instead of just saying "sweet" - which tells a woman that you are both bored and stupid - he should've asked more questions, leading ones, such as "what are you graduating in?" and "how do you see the role of this degree in your life?". Women like this, and it's good as well, you get to find out about her life goals and aspirations, and that can aid the decision of whether to date or skate substantially.

    This is one reason why I hate texting. It's nigh impossible to have an intelligent conversation. Texts are alright for organising meetings and other day to day planning, but not for much else.
    His goal was to spend time with her right then. I'd say skip all this other shit and get right to the point e.g. "want to meet up for breakfast?" It might present as a better option that studying. If it's a warm rejection, such as "love to but I'm studying," follow up with "K. c-ya at big event tomorrow" and for a neutral to cold rejection, no follow up...But that's just my take on it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kullervo View Post
    Stop there.

    Instead of just saying "sweet" - which tells a woman that you are both bored and stupid - he should've asked more questions, leading ones, such as "what are you graduating in?" and "how do you see the role of this degree in your life?". Women like this, and it's good as well, you get to find out about her life goals and aspirations, and that can aid the decision of whether to date or skate substantially.
    Yeah, women like actual conversations -- just like men do. Whereas what @Comeback Girl was describing was constant shallow, creepy, and stupid pestering, which is also a turnoff for just about everyone, as it makes just about anyone seem desperate.

    Quote Originally Posted by theDarkSide View Post
    His goal was to spend time with her right then. I'd say skip all this other shit and get right to the point e.g. "want to meet up for breakfast?" It might present as a better option that studying. If it's a warm rejection, such as "love to but I'm studying," follow up with "K. c-ya at big event tomorrow" and for a neutral to cold rejection, no follow up...But that's just my take on it.
    ^ Agree with this. Bolded is key -- what made this guy infuriating was the constant pestering.
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    That dog on the Beneful commercial seems to really like that dog food. I wonder if my dog would like it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by theDarkSide View Post
    His goal was to spend time with her right then. I'd say skip all this other shit and get right to the point e.g. "want to meet up for breakfast?" It might present as a better option that studying. If it's a warm rejection, such as "love to but I'm studying," follow up with "K. c-ya at big event tomorrow" and for a neutral to cold rejection, no follow up...But that's just my take on it.
    Is this an Intuitive vs. Sensor thing? It's about the dude sending an inappropriate amount of texts, often stating nothing at all, total nonsense or how me not answering quickly enough is making him insecure. He starts early in the morning and continues to send me messages, sometimes with just an emoji in it, no matter how long I've been ignoring him. I didn't even respond to any of his messages today and he keeps sending one every hour or so. I don't want to wake up to countless messages of someone who wants me to respond right away, I don't want to receive messages all day long from someone who demands my attention, I don't want people to obligate me to interact with them every single time of the day. It's needy and smothering. If someone doesn't respond to my messages right away, I don't send a reminder every hour. They'll probably answer when they have time for it, whether it's ten seconds or ten hours later and I trust them with that. And if they don't answer? So be it, no need to start annoying the crap out of them. If I really need them to answer, I'll just call them. It's called basic human decency and giving people space.

    Now about the guy I was talking about: at first I considered going on a date with him, but now that he started acting this demanding and needy I'd rather tell a professional MMA fighter that he's got a tiny willy than spend one minute talking to this guy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Comeback Girl View Post
    Is this an Intuitive vs. Sensor thing? It's about the dude sending an inappropriate amount of texts, often stating nothing at all, total nonsense or how me not answering quickly enough is making him insecure. He starts early in the morning and continues to send me messages, sometimes with just an emoji in it, no matter how long I've been ignoring him. I didn't even respond to any of his messages today and he keeps sending one every hour or so. I don't want to wake up to countless messages of someone who wants me to respond right away, I don't want to receive messages all day long from someone who demands my attention, I don't want people to obligate me to interact with them every single time of the day. It's needy and smothering. If someone doesn't respond to my messages right away, I don't send a reminder every hour. They'll probably answer when they have time for it, whether it's ten seconds or ten hours later and I trust them with that. And if they don't answer? So be it, no need to start annoying the crap out of them. If I really need them to answer, I'll just call them. It's called basic human decency and giving people space.
    What's with all the periods in his texts? Is that how he's writing them? I find the excessive use of periods more detestable than his lameness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RedruM View Post
    What's with all the periods in his texts? Is that how he's writing them? I find the excessive use of periods more detestable than his lameness.
    Indeed, that's how he writes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RedruM View Post
    What's with all the periods in his texts? Is that how he's writing them? I find the excessive use of periods more detestable than his lameness.
    I find his lameness quite charming, along with the punctuation. You've just got issues...Oh and I think she should date him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by theDarkSide View Post
    I find his lameness quite charming, along with the punctuation.
    That's because you're lame too. Birds of a feather.

    Now depart from my sight, peasant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by theDarkSide View Post
    I find his lameness quite charming, along with the punctuation. You've just got issues...Oh and I think she should date him.
    The guy is so stupid, he doesn't even know what YOLO is. Hating on YOLO, okay, but not knowing what YOLO is? I know guys who are interested as well who have better six packs AND functioning brains.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RedruM View Post
    That's because you're lame too. Birds of a feather.

    Now depart from my sight, peasant.
    But I like it here.

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