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    Quote Originally Posted by labyrinth_perhaps View Post
    If you feel compelled to offer someone a glass of water, consider that you may actually be the one who is thirsty.
    even if they're choking on food, or passing out from dehydration?
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    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    even if they're choking on food, or passing out from dehydration?
    Lol, obviously not. this quote is more about, people who use the act of giving for selfish reassurance looking for something in return
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    Quote Originally Posted by labyrinth_perhaps View Post
    Lol, obviously not. this quote is more about, people who use the act of giving for selfish reassurance looking for something in return
    I do that, the other day I told my aunt and uncle we needed to go this really good fried chicken place and that they'd love it. that's true, but my motive for doing so was, I really wanted fried chicken.
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    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    I do that, the other day I told my aunt and uncle we needed to go this really good fried chicken place and that they'd love it. that's true, but my motive for doing so was, I really wanted fried chicken.
    truuu, I do stuff like that all the time as well, but I never try to make myself feel like i'm doing a good deed by manipulating someone, I just see it as a commensurate interaction. Which is sorta of a lie as well, because if I really want something... I never make myself look selfish because that would blow my cover, and I also don't want to feel the guilt, so I convince myself it's beneficial for the person i'm manipulating as well. But I often try not be a complete selfish bitch, but when I am... that happens lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by labyrinth_perhaps View Post
    truuu, I do stuff like that all the time as well, but I never try to make myself feel like i'm doing a good deed by manipulating someone, I just see it as a commensurate interaction. Which is sorta of a lie as well, because if I really want something... I never make myself look selfish because that would blow my cover, and I also don't want to feel the guilt, so I convince myself it's beneficial for the person i'm manipulating as well. But I often try not be a complete selfish bitch, but when I am... that happens lol
    I told my aunt as we were going my reason for bringing it up, and she was like I figured
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    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    I told my aunt as we were going my reason for bringing it up, and she was like I figured
    I don't even like fried chicken, it hurts my tum tum and I end up having to take a tums after anyways
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    Quote Originally Posted by labyrinth_perhaps View Post
    I don't even like fried chicken, it hurts my tum tum and I end up having to take to a tums after anyways
    yeah well that's why i didn't bring it up to my brother or sister-in-law, well more the fact they're vegetarians
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    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    yeah well that's why i didn't bring it up to my brother or sister-in-law, well more the fact they're vegetarians
    I could honestly be a vegetarian if I had a strong urge too, I cannot stand red meat. It's not even about the healthy living aspect...its just the fact I physically feel sick after eating steak. I DESPISE STEAK. I don't really like pork that much either, Chicken is chill...and ham... I don't like bacon either. I LOVE TURKEY THOUGH, TURKEY BURGERS, TURKEY COLD CUTS, TURKEY EVERYTHANG.

    I just want to live off of sushi though...that is a fantasy. I would be so happy. but so sick.
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    Quote Originally Posted by labyrinth_perhaps View Post
    I could honestly be a vegetarian if I had a strong urge too, I cannot stand red meat. It's not even about the healthy living aspect...its just the fact I physically feel sick after eating steak. I DESPISE STEAK. I don't really like pork that much either, Chicken is chill...and ham... I don't like bacon either. I LOVE TURKEY THOUGH, TURKEY BURGERS, TURKEY COLD CUTS, TURKEY EVERYTHANG.

    I just want to live off of sushi though...that is a fantasy. I would be so happy. but so sick.
    I <3 meat
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    Ok, I have to extricate myself from this gift-giving nightmare. I really adore one of my online friends but she is killing me with her endless community-bakesale mentality about everyone we know! If I want to give someone something, it will be in private, I wish you would just allow for that in... Eh, I guess I don't really care. I'll just talk to her about it. :p

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