(I don't object to the fan fiction, I object to the bong hit because the inferior Fe motivation behind that is so transparent. I know exactly what that is about. Personally speaking, I'd rather form bonds with people by being interesting or funny than "edgy". "Edgy" is actually incredibly safe. A lot of normal people start to get over the need to appear "edgy" by their late twenties, anyway. )
I'd say curiosity and self-esteem have become more important to me than encyclopedic knowledge.