Whoa, you really do look like Shakira. Congrats. It's amazing what a hair cut can do.
Shakira has so many hairstyles, so I wanted you all to know which one I was talking about (i.e. long, curly, lots of volume). Didn't want to post pics in a publicly viewable subforum. I may post a video later today, though, which would show my current hairstyle pretty well.
INFP's: When it rains and all the worms come out, do you wish you could save them all? Do you avoid stepping on them? (I do.)
Anyone else is of course free to answer. I just thought this was a particularly INFP thing to do.
I try to avoid stepping on them, but I don't care about saving them all. If I do step on one, I don't really feel bad. They brought it on themselves. That interest in saving them all, that does sound very Fi-ish.
I don't get Fi. I have a hard time grasping Ni, too, but Fi really mystifies me. I grew up with INFPs, have dated INFPs, and Fi still bewilders me.
I'm enjoying the discussion of the worms thing, I never notice things like that usually but wish I was tuned in enough in order to, and I never feel anything about it either and there's something cool about the idea that people are conscientious about these sorts of things. I mena conscientious about those, which dont seem too important to me, and maybe they are conscientious about other things which are more important to me too.
Lol. Fi is mystifying. I posted this as a status on facebook, and someone commented "bird buffet", and that changed my perspective. I feel good that the birds and other animals get to eat them, and they aren't wasted. So now I don't feel like saving them anymore, because they are there for other animals to eat. Which I don't know is true, but there aren't dead worms everywhere, so something must do it. I still don't want to thoughtlessly kill them.