There are times when it is regretful that my extraverted "go to" functions are Ne (playful platypus plays pliantly with pudding) and Te (you will do this like this NAO). I had to speak to an employee today about her conduct. Ie, going to the bathroom 5-10 times a day with the fan on for over 5 minutes each time... thinking that no one can hear her talking on her cell phone. She denied this, of course, and I can't tell what is worse: that she is lying to me or that she is deluded into thinking she isn't doing these things. And, of course, me and the 3 other people who have heard her... are lying or making things up. Le sighe. Like, just own up to this, I don't even care so much about what is happening, I just want the damn truth!
Either way I made the ESFJ cry and I didn't feel a shred of pity or warmth about it. And I can't fake caring or being nice about it. I can't even make myself give her a supportive hug.
The opportunity I am seizing in this is that I am hiring 3 new people and I am going to train everyone for Saturdays and take Saturdays off. So starting in a few weeks, for the first time in over 10 years I will be working a normal work week of M-F with my weekends fully free. HOW DID I NOT DO THIS EARLIER?! I am crazy. But now I am sane.