Something the other day reminded me of a comment my ex made to me..."why cant I work with you" I kept my answer to myself, but its because "I am not needy, dependent, struggle with life, want perfection, or need someone else in my life to enjoy myself" I have no desire for a co-dependent relationship, I want to walk side by side with someone through thick and thin, screw ups and all. Thats what makes life fun. When you can laugh at something that didnt work, when someone tries something stupid and a paint can falls on them. To walk into a high dollar restaurant that doesnt have a dress code in a tank top and shorts then base the waiters tip on the service I get. I dont want all "you have to do this, or that, we planned it this way and you just screwed everything up" I dont want someone to run life, I want to enjoy life for what it is the way I am.
Take what I say with a grain of salt, because that's all it is compared to the ocean of complexity when it comes to actions and real life.