Spending several years learning to roll "R" in the back of the throat for speaking French seems highly unfortunate when one is attempting to pronounce words that require rolling "R" in the front of the mouth.
"Sentiment without action is the ruin of the soul." - Edward Abbey
"In those days I, Daniel, was mourning three full weeks. I ate no pleasant food, no meat or wine came into my mouth, nor did I anoint myself at all, till three whole weeks were fulfilled." Daniel 10:2-3
I'm really glad I started talking to my ISTJ friend girl again. I totally forgot about how great it is to talk to a girl that I'm not sexually interested in at all (it's not her looks, she was my best friend's S.O for a long time. So we mega friend zoned each other).