This whining and fingerpointing. Is this what Fe's supposed to be or wth? I must've totally misunderstood it, then, I thought it's about striving to create a consensus.
Personally, I don't have any problems with you (how could I, I don't even know you), but this behaviour is very... strange for me
At least not what I'd expect from an introverted feeler. Perhaps I'm mistaken.
One of my oldest online friends is an INFJ. Known her for 10 years.
She'll cut your heart out if you cross her.
(Apologize later, and tell you how she "hated" doing it, but she'll still DO it.)
She does not look for consensus, and if you don't know what you are talking about she will tell you--point blank.
She's smart as a whip, and a very protective mother bear to her family.
She might be an I but she has the mouth of an E.
I don't know what you are expecting from IF's but it sounds like you think they tiptoe through the wimpy tulips, or some type of stereotypical nonsense.