Guys with medium-long blonde hair, who can take at least a little care of it, nothing crazy perfect, just a bit...nicely surprising.
Guys who can speak spanish, - I realise this one's achievable if I go to Spain.
Like with an intelligent, intense/passionate about the things that interest them, though still a little light and fuzzy in their own way dude or dudette who notices something, like I'm reading a book they love, or vice versa, and then we get into a long, stimulating, yet still sort of playful conversation and we descover we really resonate, and I end up sticking with them far too long, yet not nearly enough, and/or vice versa (eg I meet them on the buss, and miss my stop) and then we realise we're made for each other, and live together for the rest of our lives and make many beautiful babies and our love spreads through the world and there's world peace and...and.......
Could I trade something for that last one? A limb, perhaps? My cousin? I love her dearly, but......The children!