I don't show the full spectrum of my intellect on this site, of course. I doubt that many of us do.
I agree with you.That's true, also. But you should remember... just because they can dish it out, doesn't mean they can take it. There really are very sensitive people who can go around being ruthless and nasty to others. In fact, immature IxTJs (and more rarely IxFPs) often do just that.
However, my point still stands that I have simply had more conflict...on-line in particular...with NTJs than NTPs. That's just how it has gone for me.
I usually get along with INFJs for the most part, and have several INFJ friends, but I do believe that I had an INT/FJ professor last semester and I HATED her. She was so nit-picky about how every little insignificant thing had to be. She was one of THOSE. That's how I know I am ultimately a P preference.