i rejected, and by rejected, i mean blocked from AIM and everything without even saying 'goodbye', a very physically attractive man because when asked, he called people who believe in the possibility of UFOs "backwoods dumbasses".
and when i did it, it felt GOOD. actually, so good, that i take it back. my reasoning wasn't superficial, he was.
Never put an INTJ in charge of his own sex life. Nor an INTP!
And CzeCze! I've done the same thing, broken my own rule about dating men stronger than I (though I at least want them my same height, it doesnt matter how much taller they are though XD! just not shorter!)
I dated a Lebanese man [boy] that was like 5'11ish and weighed 115 lbs. He was sickly skinny, and had not one ounce of muscle to him. Actually, we didn't have much (at all) of a sex life because I just didn't find him physically attractive, I was dating him for his personality which went to hell soon afterward we moved in together. (In my defense though! We moved in because we both needed roommates, it wasn't any steps toward our relationship.)
Because I know you ALL want to know this, everytime I see a skinny guy with no muscle all I can think about is how SAGGY he was. You'd think skinny people would be a tight and formed.. but nay! Because he did not work out, or make the effort for his body, his arms and butt jiggled like a filled out person would even though there was nothing but a hint of fat and skin. I'm sorry, I jiggle, but I have curves for such things. It was disgusting, the mix of fat-like-tendacies with emaciated wrists and such.
It didn't help his case that he was balding already and had body hair like he wore a sweater everyday.
ACTUALLY now that I think about it! Being more superficial probably would have saved me from that entire relationship in the first place! I really can overlook a lot when it comes to men, but if I had been more rigid about what was physically attractive to me back then he wouldn't have even had a glance from me.
Kantgirl: Just say "I'm feminine and I'll punch anyone who says otherwise!"
Halla74: Think your way through the world. Feel your way through life.
Cimarron: maybe Prpl will be your girl-bud
prplchknz: i don't like it