exactly how i feel
I think its an XNTP vs XNFP difference. the XNTPs tend to want to shake things up (nothing wrong with that, good for them) and the XNFPs dont quite know what to think about it. a good chunk of the time the XNTPs are just having fun in their own way.
at least thats how i see it
I can't be sure, but I don't think it has to do with your status here.
good advice, thank youAs for settling in here in general, the best thing to do is just to say what you have to say without worrying so much about whether people accept you. People enjoy sincerity and self-confidence and you'll integrate yourself naturally. If you do happen to worry about it, no big deal, it'll wear off eventually. Injecting some humor into the situation (your unsureness) won't hurt either, and it is kinda comical.