INFP scare me because they seem unreachable and it seems impossible to live up to their imaginary standards.
Originally Posted by Sytpg
Yes lack of feedback is part of the problem.
Funny, but my ENFP friend has yelled at me (she was something between frustrated and angry) at me once or twice for these reasons. The things is I do give feed back but it's normally too subtle for her to notice. And I don't feel like giving her more direct feedback since she's bad at receiving it. But that's because her own immature personality, too emotional for me to handle. And now that I think about it.. Hmm, she's not the only one to say that. I'll try to open up a bit from now on.
Unhealty INTP's are something awful, You never know when they’ll blow up, for what reason and how evil they will be towards you for the next two months after the melt down. That’s most likely the shadow coming out to play plus the unhealthyness.
"How dreadful!" cried Lord Henry. "I can stand brute force, but brute reason is quite unbearable. There is something unfair about its use. It is hitting below the intellect." ~ Oscar Wilde - The picture of Dorian Gray
My ESTP housemate has got to be the most callous, narrow-minded, charming, oily, conceited pricks I have ever known. He might be an unhealthy manifestation of his type though... I can't pinpoint any others but I'll try to give them the benefit of the doubt.
i'm not scared of any type because i believe that pretty much everyone has a good side, you just need to come to know it. there are obviously types that i don't get along with/annoy me though. these are:
bottom line, i just don't like being bossed around. ISTJ's are the best outa the bunch just because they're introverts so won't come and want to control me outa the blue, but i have a feeling that if we got to know each other, they could be a pain in the back pocket area. ESFJ's may make it on the list, but i've yet to meet one, so i can't say for sure.
People who are fucked in the head, but
1) like to assume leadership roles (for which they are unsuited), and
2) are unaware of or unwilling to face their fuckedupitude, so they
3) try to get others as messed up as they are - it is an "improvement" that reinforces their own misguided choices.