I hate being told what to do, feel or believe. That is almost the only thing I hate. I often consider it the ONLY evil--to attempt to take someone elses choices. It seems like all evil things can be traced back to that.
I hate sales pitches and advertising when they are anything other then, "here is the info. you can do what you want."
I hate commands of any sort. Even "cheer-up" irks me.
I hate expectations, any and all expectations are unrealistic in my mind. But we all have them, what can we do? (plenty, but that is a different discussion)
Why do I mention so many things I hate, when the question is about what type I fear?
Because I am afraid of hating people or things. More than any emotion, it makes me irrational, and I fear loosing my calm in situations where I care about the results.
When my choices are at risk, that causes fear also.
So, for me, it comes down to choice.
With that, if I had to choose a type that has the least respect for other peoples choices, I would say it is ESFJ, with ENFJ as a close second (and this is a gross generalization, and means nothing about particular ExFJs).
I know there are plenty of exceptions and other types that consistently lack respect for other peoples choices.
But the question itself, asked for a type I fear. So I made my choice.