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    Girls at age 30 seem to be in utmost need of the white knight. But my lance is broken. Do you think this past love will pass ? I am german I am a soldier, I am loyal to the death. I dunno how to pass it..

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    Quote Originally Posted by entropie View Post
    Girls at age 30 seem to be in utmost need of the white knight. But my lance is broken. Do you think this past love will pass ? I am german I am a soldier, I am loyal to the death. I dunno how to pass it.
    Yes and no. I think you will eventually be able to move beyond it, but the memory of it will always be there. When you eventually find someone else, she will not replace your ex, but rather you will find/make new space for her and the new relationship. Do not forsake your loyalty to yourself.

    I went through the lesser version of this - lesser in that we had been together for only one year. That was bad enough, but it does get better.
    I've been called a criminal, a terrorist, and a threat to the known universe. But everything you were told is a lie. The truth is, they've taken our freedom, our home, and our future. The time has come for all humanity to take a stand...

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    Embrace it instead? Incorporate that love into yourself so that it becomes part of you instead of about her and that way you'll have it available to give out to someone else? I don't really know.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coriolis View Post
    Yes and no. I think you will eventually be able to move beyond it, but the memory of it will always be there. When you eventually find someone else, she will not replace your ex, but rather you will find/make new space for her and the new relationship. Do not forsake your loyalty to yourself.

    I went through the lesser version of this - lesser in that we had been together for only one year. That was bad enough, but it does get better.
    No more lesser !

    Thank you my friend
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