How about ESFJ gets shapeshifter? They understand the atmosphere so well that they can become whatever is required for the situation.
Notice, tho, that I say they "can" become anything, not that they would always -even if they don't see a need.
id go with pacify an it could be done on myself as well both mentally an physically. it someone is in a bitchy mood, pacify would calm their mind an soul. gonna be attacked by animal, human or machine? pacify. i would create an aura. pacify can move to suspend action
"I'm not in this world to live up to your expectations and you're not in this world to live up to mine. "