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    Quote Originally Posted by Stephano View Post
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    I've read that conversation. Maybe he means that you would have to be the "self-loathing type" to have experienced intense emotional pain yet.
    Oh OK, I didn't see it like this but it makes sense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyRain View Post
    @entropie: I am sorry and I hope things get better (trying for insightful). @entropie: What's wrong? (Being genuine)
    Since my breakup one year ago, I have fallen into a constant rush. The whole life changed in a day and I really mean everything. Since then I have the feeling that I am only running behind trieing to catch up, tho my activities and participations in life have trippled. I have like 20 people messaging me on the weekend, asking what I am planning; I got to know like 50 new people the last year and my hobbies have quadruppled. Even built an Aquarium and started an education for a private pilot license. Broke 5 female hearts on the way.

    It is a constant run for appreciation and recognition motivated from a broken self-confidence. An existential fear which rose when I lost my life and now needs to be drained and held underwater so it cant overwhelm me.

    It has gotten better and I start to realize whats wrong now after a year. Still I dont know how to deal with that emotion. I think that it just needs time and then will become weaker and leave on its own. But I have a very bad patience and have the feeling to be always on the run.

    Since my breakup the feeling of love is completly vanished. I still am responsible and care for each others but I feel blocked, if I try to love them. Thats a sign because I dont love myself at the moment, which is just the logical consequence out of the oversized fight against the own existential fear.

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    Quote Originally Posted by entropie View Post
    Since my breakup one year ago, I have fallen into a constant rush. The whole life changed in a day and I really mean everything. Since then I have the feeling that I am only running behind trieing to catch up, tho my activities and participations in life have trippled. I have like 20 people messaging me on the weekend, asking what I am planning; I got to know like 50 new people the last year and my hobbies have quadruppled. Even built an Aquarium and started an education for a private pilot license. Broke 5 female hearts on the way.

    It is a constant run for appreciation and recognition motivated from a broken self-confidence. An existential fear which rose when I lost my life and now needs to be drained and held underwater so it cant overwhelm me.

    It has gotten better and I start to realize whats wrong now after a year. Still I dont know how to deal with that emotion. I think that it just needs time and then will become weaker and leave on its own. But I have a very bad patience and have the feeling to be always on the run.

    Since my breakup the feeling of love is completly vanished. I still am responsible and care for each others but I feel blocked, if I try to love them. Thats a sign because I dont love myself at the moment, which is just the logical consequence out of the oversized fight against the own existential fear.
    You're grieving a loss so, what you've said is perfectly understandable; I'm there myself. Grief last anywhere between 1 and 5 years before we accept and move on. It's a process I wish none of us would ever have to go through and I am sorry you are still in hurting part of it all. Fear is something I certainly understand. I discovered I had abandonment issues when things got screwy with my relationship. Anyway, if you ever want to talk, send me a note. And, thanks for answering me; I wasn't expecting it

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    This's good not depri

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