I just learned what Donna Summer looked like (I youtubed a video of hers than I was like is that her? and googled her and yes it is)
I had no clue what Cindy Crawford looked like until I was about 16 (I grew up in the 90s when she was extremely popular and my friends would talk about her all the time in grade school, don't ask how I never knew what she looked like)
1. I feel invaded sometimes by requests to justify my ideas.
2. What if I'm selling myself too short? This is a possibility. If this is true, it is on a pretty large, pervasive scale.
3. I'm one of those people who doesn't deal well with silences in conversation with others. This is an extension of generally feeling responsible for whatever I'm involved in even when the responsibility is shared - as if I were doing it alone, except in such a case I'm not alone yet go into alone-mode anyway. I assume I should be able to carry the full weight of any undertaking myself, and if I can't, I shouldn't be there. I assume as a default that I am on my own in whatever I do. I'm not sure that that last sentence is so bad in and of itself, although there are certain situations where that MO is definitely destructive.
4w5 6w7 1w2 sx/sp ⏩ ISFP
RLOAX (don't do it) ⏩ Melancholic Hufflepuff
A lonely island where only what is permitted to move moves, becomes an ideal. Jung