A very good friend of mine's bachelorette party (which these days is a whole weekend ) was yesterday and today. Her MOH switched the times for yesterday last minute, so I wasn't able to go to the first part.
Confession: I was so relieved. Also, I don't want to go to the second part which is tonight.
I love my friend, but why must Bachelorette parties consist of people getting trashed in city environments. I mean, even the intoxication would be fine, say, at a lakehouse or camping? I just don't get the appeal or purpose. And that is the bottom line, there isn't one. This friend in particular is a pretty bright girl, so occasionally she'll have these moments of surfacing from the swill-ish sea of consumeristic "reality" and reach out to me-- what is my purpose? I feel like I have no purpose and am not utilizing my skills/gifts. That sentiment usually gives me hope, until her eyes glaze over again at the notion of owning her first condo in the city at 25. "Goalz" I guess.
Maybe this post should have gone in the Rant thread...
06-25-2016, 11:02 AM #2841
06-25-2016, 11:37 AM #2842
I told my archaeology teacher she looked like the author who wrote the book the life giving magic of not giving a f*ck.
Ironically She was like I don't care attitude in her voice but she's like "um cool" I showed her a picture of the author to her on Google.
Yeah but I switched to a different subject.
I'm the antithesis of a teachers pet.
I probably should try to stop with the older and work harder on befriending people my age.obviously you're going to get nothing from reading this
06-26-2016, 07:44 PM #2843
06-26-2016, 07:46 PM #2844
I just realized I have a big problem with boredom. I have no idea how to handle it or how to deal with it. Reentering the dating world won't help that (besides, being unemployed and living with my parents doesn't look terribly great in that whole scene, anyway). It's something I've got to figure out how to deal with on my own.
06-26-2016, 08:13 PM #2845
06-26-2016, 09:56 PM #2846
- Join Date
- Jun 2016
I confess, Jesus is Lord! He makes the dead come alive.
06-26-2016, 11:10 PM #2847
06-26-2016, 11:14 PM #2848
Displays of romantic physical affection between people I know, if anything more than the occasional hand-holding, hug, or kiss on the cheek, make me VERY uncomfortable. Like, uncomfortable enough to avert my eyes and find an excuse to leave the room until they're done.
While I'm not 100% sure why I have this reaction consistently, I think it's because in those situations, it feels like I'm witnessing a private (and socially inappropriate) moment that is absolutely none of my business. Not to mention, putting myself in their shoes, I would NOT be happy with that much physical contact -- so there's some sympathetic discomfort there, even if the recipient clearly enjoys it.Originally Posted by Nørrsken impersonating EJCC
1w2/7w6/3w4 so/sx (enneagram)
lawful good (D&D) / ravenclaw + wampus (HP) / boros legion (M:TG)
conscientious > sensitive > serious (oldham)
want to ask me something? go for it!
06-26-2016, 11:37 PM #2849
I believe there's a time and place for everything..Work for a cause not for Applause
Live to express not to Impress
"It's easier to complain than to take action to improve things" -JAVO
6w7 > 1w2 > 4w3
06-27-2016, 12:21 AM #2850
I wash my hair like once a week. I used to do it every other day, but ever since I started dyeing my hair, I really don't want the color to fade so fast. Also, I get really lazy. It's been seeming remarkably clean, though. For everyone, here are some tips to help keep unwashed hair looking fresh:
-Dry shampoo. Make it your best friend. I'm using the Dove brand right now.
-Put your hair up when you sleep. I always sleep with my hair in a ponytail or bun, because having it pressed up against my face all night is going to get some oils on it.
-Keep your hair up more during the day. (I've been rocking messy & ballerina buns.) It keeps it out of your face where you sweat and produce oil.
-Put your hair up after you wash it. After I wash my hair and it's mostly dry, I put it up in a bun and leave it there for a while. Admittedly, I leave my hair in buns for up to two days and don't brush it--though I have pretty straight hair, so this might not work for everyone. When I take it out, it still has a fresh smell!
-When you take your hair out of a bun, spritz it with some dry shampoo and fluff it a bit. It'll have some volume!
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