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    sometimes I blow my friends off cuz I like hanging out with my boyfriend better but also feel guilty for being one of *those* girls
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    My mindset has significantly shifted over the past year; I've lost a lot of my mistrust and suspicion. It feels like I've become a different person, but I wonder if I've lost some good things, too. Who am I now that the things that used to define are no longer such a strong presence in my life? I dunno.

    It's weird. So many things I used to think were so important don't even seem to matter anymore. Maybe I should start a blog about this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    I don't know if I have the capacity to feel true, deep, lasting romantic love. Crushes, yes, but then the crush fades and nothing is left.

    Considering all the other ways I deviate from the norm in this regard, it's more possible than not that this is the case. And that worries and upsets me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Osprey View Post
    My mindset has significantly shifted over the past year; I've lost a lot of my mistrust and suspicion. It feels like I've become a different person, but I wonder if I've lost some good things, too. Who am I now that the things that used to define are no longer such a strong presence in my life? I dunno.

    It's weird. So many things I used to think were so important don't even seem to matter anymore. Maybe I should start a blog about this.
    I am in the same boat right now. For me, I am just trying to experience new things and take bigger risks (not reckless, mind you). I guess I am loosening up what I considered my boundaries and sense of security and trying to redefine them, little by little...in essence, I try not to take things quite as seriously but I still analyze how things do or not fit into my goals and values, and adjust, if need be.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chickpea View Post
    sometimes I blow my friends off cuz I like hanging out with my boyfriend better but also feel guilty for being one of *those* girls
    oh you! you! I know girls like you...I lost my best friend to this

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    Quote Originally Posted by chickpea View Post
    sometimes I blow my friends off cuz I like hanging out with my boyfriend better but also feel guilty for being one of *those* girls
    One of my best friends did that too but since he was such a close friend it didn't last long enough to drift 'that' much thankfully. But it was really starting to bother my friends and I after a while because he kept skipping out on everything when he hadn't seen his girlfriend in only "2 days".

    I've had a gf oncr where I didn't see her except once a week. So something like that just seems quite attached.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FutureInProgress View Post
    I am in the same boat right now. For me, I am just trying to experience new things and take bigger risks (not reckless, mind you). I guess I am loosening up what I considered my boundaries and sense of security and trying to redefine them, little by little...in essence, I try not to take things quite as seriously but I still analyze how things do or not fit into my goals and values, and adjust, if need be.
    I'm just trying to get organized and get my shit together. For me, that feels like trying on an entirely different hat. And yes, there is a loosening of boundaries, as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Krim13 View Post
    One of my best friends did that too but since he was such a close friend it didn't last long enough to drift 'that' much thankfully. But it was really starting to bother my friends and I after a while because he kept skipping out on everything when he hadn't seen his girlfriend in only "2 days".

    I've had a gf oncr where I didn't see her except once a week. So something like that just seems quite attached.
    we live together and I see him everyday lol. i just need more incentive to leave him & my apartment. I'd rather relax with him than go out to a bar.

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