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    Quote Originally Posted by Qlip View Post
    I used to have one of those before I moved. He actually wasn't very good, but I always ask what people they think about certain situations. Eventually he ended up telling me, "Why are you even asking me, you never fucking do what I tell you to do."
    i love hearing what people think. but who takes direction from others over whatever they're hearing inside theirself? just seems dumb to me. i've always said, i love advice, but i don't take commands.
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    Quote Originally Posted by five sounds View Post
    i love hearing what people think. but who takes direction from others over whatever they're hearing inside theirself? just seems dumb to me. i've always said, i love advice, but i don't take commands.
    You have to trust yourself, ultimately.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Qlip View Post
    I used to have one of those before I moved. He actually wasn't very good, but I always ask what people they think about certain situations. Eventually he ended up telling me, "Why are you even asking me, you never fucking do what I tell you to do."
    Again, sounds just like me and my ENFP friends. I may or may not have said that exact same thing to my ENFP bestie. For the most part I don't even bother giving her advice anymore, unless she asks for it, or unless we're talking about something really egregious.
    "When the mob and the press and the whole world tell you to move, your job is to plant yourself like a tree beside the river of truth, and tell the whole world -- 'No, YOU move.'"
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    Quote Originally Posted by five sounds View Post
    i love hearing what people think. but who takes direction from others over whatever they're hearing inside theirself? just seems dumb to me. i've always said, i love advice, but i don't take commands.
    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    Again, sounds just like me and my ENFP friends. I may or may not have said that exact same thing to my ENFP bestie. For the most part I don't even bother giving her advice anymore, unless she asks for it, or unless we're talking about something really egregious.
    Yeah, what I look for are options and new perspectives. It's really rare that somebody else both has the same objective that I do within a situation, or the same tolerances as far as an optimal 'solution' goes. Most of the time I'm not exactly looking for a resolution.
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    Confession: It makes me nervous when people think I might be fun or exciting. I can't say if it's true or not, but I hold very little value on those things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    Again, sounds just like me and my ENFP friends. I may or may not have said that exact same thing to my ENFP bestie. For the most part I don't even bother giving her advice anymore, unless she asks for it, or unless we're talking about something really egregious.
    Quote Originally Posted by Qlip View Post
    Yeah, what I look for are options and new perspectives. It's really rare that somebody else both has the same objective that I do within a situation, or the same tolerances as far as an optimal 'solution' goes. Most of the time I'm not exactly looking for a resolution.
    aw you should still share how you feel. i bet she values it more than you know. for the reason of exactly what qlip said.
    You hem me in -- behind and before;
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    too lofty for me to attain.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Qlip View Post
    Yeah, what I look for are options and new perspectives. It's really rare that somebody else both has the same objective that I do within a situation, or the same tolerances as far as an optimal 'solution' goes. Most of the time I'm not exactly looking for a resolution.
    Quote Originally Posted by five sounds View Post
    aw you should still share how you feel. i bet she values it more than you know. for the reason of exactly what qlip said.
    Out of curiosity: if you don't want resolution, what do you want?
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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    Out of curiosity: if you don't want resolution, what do you want?
    cake. well that's what i want personally i dunno about them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    cake. well that's what i want personally i dunno about them.
    I want a car with a cupholder armrest. I want a car that will get me there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    Out of curiosity: if you don't want resolution, what do you want?
    I can't speak for fiver, but I want a kind of holographic view of the situation, perspectives from many different viewpoints. I want to end up in a place that's completely predictable from an ENFP point of view, a place of maximum potential. Where the possibilities shine the brightest, this isn't always when everything is wrapped up in a neat bow.
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