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    Depends on the situation, but usually not. I'm pretty shy and don't do much approaching. But in the right place with the right people I can be chatty.

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    In the right mood and mindset, (ie: drunk), I can manage it, otherwise the conversations are just stilted and awkward and worth nobodies time.

    Similar to @nicolita I tend to gravitate towards those I have more affinity with.
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    I'm usually the one playing with my phone. Most of the time I don't even know why I go to bars or restaurants when I can stay at home and order Chinese takeout and drinque my own booze.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chana View Post
    Depends on the situation, but usually not. I'm pretty shy and don't do much approaching. But in the right place with the right people I can be chatty.
    this.

    well i'm not shy, but then I am to be honest a pretty judgmental person, and select who i talk to often. it may sound bad, but meh, nobody is owed anything.

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    I pretty much speak with who I want to. Which means everyone or only a few depending on the people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by danseen View Post
    this.

    well i'm not shy, but then I am to be honest a pretty judgmental person, and select who i talk to often. it may sound bad, but meh, nobody is owed anything.
    Yeah some people I just have no interest in talking to, but other people I may be interested in talking to but when they seem standoff-ish or don't show any interest in socializing I don't pursue it.

    Probably why I don't have that many friends

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    In social situations, I'm polite to everyone I meet. If they want to talk I will, but I don't start conversations very often. I do like to listen though.
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    Not usually, it's exhausting and I'm a little shy. And honestly there are a few people I don't really enjoy talking to. But I try to be polite and kind to everyone and try to say thank you to the people hosting the event, if there are any.

    I usually go into social settings with a partner I stick to for the duration even if we float around together or split and return, or I find a small group and anchor there. I do tend to keep track of what's going on with everyone and check in on certain people I'm especially fond of.

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    I feel like I used to way more but maybe it's because I used to go out more socially and often had cocktails too. I feel like I'm always friendly and open to conversation but I don't engage people as often as I used to out of interest. I'm less interested lately.

    I'm gonna blame the environment tho. I think I'd still be interested in different circumstances.

    So no not currently. I kinda just smile and be polite to most people I guess.
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    Quote Originally Posted by wolfy View Post
    I pretty much speak with who I want to. Which means everyone or only a few depending on the people.
    Yeah or this.
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