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    Quote Originally Posted by Abbey View Post
    Are you good with children?
    I'm uncertain as to what defines good. I can keep from offending/traumatizing them, & keep them physically alive (if you pay me). Sure.

    Do you like them?
    I'm indifferent. I avoid them by nature, but I neither like nor dislike them as a rule. Just no drive to be around them if I can help it.

    Do they like you?
    Yeah, usually. It's fucking weird.

    Do you want children?
    No.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Abbey View Post
    Are you good with children?
    If I need to be, yes.

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    Do you like them?
    Not particularly. I'm not able to tolerate them for extended periods of time if they're hyper, or needy, which they usually are.

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    Do they like you?
    Actually, they do. It's annoying.

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    Do you want children?
    No, but if for some reason I became a parent, I'd be a good one, I think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Abbey View Post
    Are you good with children? Do you like them? Do they like you? Do you want children?
    1) I don't know honestly
    2) I like the quiet focused ones
    3) Yea probably
    4) I don't want children of my own no. If someone brings their kids into a relationship then I wouldn't mind adopting them. But the relationship would have to be a sure thing.

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    I'm awful with children, but people think I'm great with them. I like them alright when they can understand what I'm saying. My nephews, 3 years old right now, are a bit of a pain and try my patience every time I see them because of this lack of communication and brain development.

    I have no desire for children.. and my sisters having children pushed that desire even further away.. It used to be this unknown "I just don't care about it right now" field.. when I met my nephews and nieces, it became this very real, actual concept of "NOPE."
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    Are you good with children?

    I'm ok. It would depend on the child. I'm not big on discipline so I tend to struggle to maintain any sort of structure, perhaps because my childhood had an large amount of structure to it that I resented.

    I can't maintain interest in them for long though, too draining.

    Do you like them?

    Not really. I like my second job's bosses baby, he makes me smile. But apart from that, most are grubbing little bastards....stay away from me!

    Do they like you?

    Oddly enough some do and follow me around and the more I try to distance myself the more they do it. But many don't, which is a good thing, I can make them cry very easily.

    Do you want children?

    No.

    Too many people. And not enough inclination from myself to bring a child into the world when I don't see it as my responsibility, I mean my responsibility to have children which quite a lot of people seem to base their existence on, I suppose that makes sense from a purely propagation perspective and for those who have little else to offer the world, which isn't to say I think this goes for all parents, just a lot of them.

    It's something I find really abhorrent in some people, like children are a status symbol to be paraded around and worst of all, used as righteous indignation for what are really their own views of appropriateness rather than for the sake of their kids.

    I remember being on an 18+ forum and I posted a rather rude picture as a joke and one individual made a huge scene out of it saying his daughter was on his lap and could have seen the picture. Why is that MY responsibility? Especially since the rules of the forum allowed for it?

    So yeah...no kids for moi.

    Maybe this will change with age, but for now it's a staunch no. I enjoy disposable income and having time for myself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mole View Post
    I like dogs and children so naturally dogs and children like me.

    Of course it is a terrible thing to say but dogs and children have some similarity: they like order, and they like to be understood, and they love attention. In fact dogs and children are a bit like me.


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    @Abbey
    Are you good with children?
    Sometimes, yes.

    Do you like them?
    Sometimes, depending on how loud they scream and how many times I get to throw them.

    Do they like you?
    Yes, until I run out of energy to throw them around.

    Do you want children?
    Yes, but one with a volume knob.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Abbey View Post
    Are you good with children? Do you like them? Do they like you? Do you want children?
    I think I'm pretty decent with children, but I haven't spent a great deal of time with them. I used to babysit 2 kids, and they liked me. But other than that, I haven't really been around many little kids.

    I'm not that fond of most kids, and I don't want any of my own.
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    them they've all got unimaginable, magnificent, wonderful, stupid, amazing worlds. Not just one world. Hundreds of them. Thousands maybe.” -Neil Gaiman

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    Quote Originally Posted by Abbey View Post
    Are you good with children?
    It depends on the age. I'm not so good with babies- I haven't had much experience. Or teenagers for that matter.
    I'm good with preschoolers and elementary aged kids.

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    Do you like them?
    Most of them.

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    Do they like you?
    I think most of them do.

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    Do you want children?
    Ambivalent. I'm curious to see how they would turn out but not sure about taking on such a huge commitment. It's not just something you can back out of.
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    I think I am no good with other children, maybe because I am the youngest in my family ?

    But in the future, I have in mind that I will not like any other children, except my own child. *well...I hope I can become a good parent*

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