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    ^ gah, I want to follow you around in all threads, because of your avatar / stalking mousie

    - don't just do your job well, exceed their fucking expectations (and yours). Make them re-evaluate how/if they're truly utilizing you to your fullest capacity, with every thing you do. Wondrous things will follow.
    - "Debating" (arguing) in medidation class is counter-productive. But, really, when they start saying shit like your chakras and soul and afterlife, and how you should always be on a quest to learn, grow, it's really just saying, question me if what I say does not make sense, because I want you to learn/grow. And I did. And it was not welcomed. Go figure.
    - there is a difference between growing old and growing up (both can, and do, happen at all stages in your life)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Qrious View Post
    ^ gah, I want to follow you around in all threads, because of your avatar / stalking mousie
    I am just fine with this BUT....
    I wish a bunny would follow me around all the time in real life
    The reason I am not a bird is that I would fly forever and die of exhaustion.

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    To try as I might to see the humanity in others.
    As annoying as it is, open communication is crucial in maintaining good friendships.

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    hyggelig Array EJCC's Avatar
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    Oh man, where to begin.

    - Having a support system is ESSENTIAL
    - Asking friends for help doesn't make me needy or burdensome
    - Most people are about three times more forgiving of me than I am of myself
    - Self-punishment is essentially beating myself down when I should be lifting myself up

    /it was a crazy year
    and it's nice enough to
    make a man
    weep, but I don't
    weep, do

    ESTJ - LSE - ESTj (mbti/socionics)
    1w2/7w6/3w4 so/sx (enneagram)
    lawful good (D&D) / ravenclaw or gryffindor (HP) / boros legion (M:TG)
    conscientious > sensitive > serious (oldham)
    want to ask me something? go for it!

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    I don't think I've learned anything completely, but I feel like I've come a long way in beginning to learn a lot of things, such as:

    1. just because people you respect wouldn't do what you want to do doesn't mean it's bad or even less than ideal; differences in opinion from superiors isn't always something bad or to punish yourself for.

    2. You can't always get what you want. This isn't necessarily restricted to inconsequential/ easily gotten over issues.

    3. Mick Jagger is good...very good.

    4. Alcohol as a consistent reward is probably a bad idea, but it makes for some pretty damn honest and self-reflective writing if you've had enough.

    5. There's a difference between being dependent on or making blatantly destructive decisions due to use of a substance and having a pattern of use that causes concern.
    Jarlaxle: fact checking this thread makes me want to go all INFP on my wrists

    "I'm in competition with myself and I'm losing."
    -Roger Waters

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    This year: I learned it is acceptable to gun down "suspicious" black children when they walk down the street in your neighborhood.

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    Diabolical Array Kasper's Avatar
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    When dreaming's this hard it's not meant to come true.

    All this time I was finding myself. And I didn't know I was lost.

    We'll never be royals. It don't run in our blood.

    This is it, the apocalypse.

    But mostly the hard dream isn't meant to come true so don't be a dolt and think it will.

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    To reset the number of posts per page from 40 or more to very few, when entering a thread full of clips.

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    The last year was one of those heavily formative years... learned:

    1. I am a fucking M1 Abrams tank for emotional and physical pain.
    2. Because of ^^^ I can be effective at getting what I want through persistence alone, but I really need to learn what kinds of things should be gone after this way.
    3. My self worth is tied to my perception of personal achievement.
    4. Don't drink coffee before important events where I need to be able to think clearly.
    5. Vietnamese steamed buns are the best steamed buns.

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