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    Hmmm . . . My drive isn't super high. I'm okay with a couple of times a week at this point in my life (I'm 43). In my early twenties, before I had kids, once or twice a day was my preference. When the kids were little and I was exhausted all the time and on total touch overload from little ones hanging on me all day and my hormones being screwed up from being too skinny while breastfeeding, it was more like once every couple, three weeks.

    It's always varied depending on the time of the month. Right after my period, I'm ready to rip some clothes off. Right before my period, I'm game, but not miserable without.

    I have no idea if I'm Sx, So, or Sp, but I'm pretty sure I'm INFJ and 9w1.

    Other than when we were in the parents-of-small-children sex famine, my drive has been on par with my INTP's if not a bit higher. I think he's a 1w9, but don't know about his instinctual variant.

    Whatever that all means, if anything.
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    Are there also age, gender, racial, or cultural factors involved in who's sex drive is the highest?

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    Quote Originally Posted by RaptorWizard View Post
    Are there also age, gender, racial, or cultural factors involved in who's sex drive is the highest?
    I think it's just a hormone thing.

    So yes, I'd say age plays a large part.

    The other factors though, who knows.
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    My sex drive seems to be directly influenced by how busy I am with work.

    The more free time I have, the higher my sex drive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starry View Post
    ...and yet pretty much on a daily basis she made me feel I was fit for the Nunnery.
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    Yeah, pretty much.

    That is the #1 answer.

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    mine completely depends on how much i like you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    Dunno, my ISFJ and I pretty much never left the sack. But he was a 9w8 as well so. What say you for instinct variants?

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    I don't think I've ever seen a "sexy" So/Sx male. Most look like they're perfectly satisfied with jerking off.

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    Male So/Sx is like this:




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    I'm pretty flirtatious. Maybe it has to do with being a bottom.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RaptorWizard View Post
    I have a sex drive sure, just like most others have, but when I think of "sexual instincts", to me it's more about being able to make powerful connections and live life with intensity, make it a more intimate experience.

    To me, this involves so much more than the physical act of having sex; truly there seems to be some kind of intangible and spiritual force that gives it the magical essence.
    I resonate with this. Sex is about vitality of energy, and the exchange of it; the universe contains so much lovely energy, life with vitality is a sexual experience in itself.


    I guess Cafe and I are outliers or counterexamples (or one or both of us are actually SP's). Mine is related strongly to my fertility cycle, but ideally I'd do it on average once a day. On fertile days as much as possible, then toward the end when I can take it or leave it every other day or so.

    I've had the most sexual chemistry and compatibility with Se users, in any position. The INTJ I was with for a bit was very sexual, but I think it was more metaphysical than physical for him if that makes sense. I think he was more about the energy and connection. His attracting a lot of women seemed to me to be fulfilling an emotional and psychological need, which was somehow tied up with sex.

    Edit: Actually I think I am similar. I have to have a connection with someone before wanting to have sex with them. I still have sexual feelings, they just need a person to direct them towards. If I don't have one I'll imagine one.

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