8 is the only enneagram type I don't think I've ever dated or been attracted to. Every other type I've had at least a 'brush' with. Friends who are 8s- yes. But nothing romantic.
That might be coincidence though. Or it might not.
I like mystical, magical men. I also want them to be strong and pragmatic and capable of taking care of themselves (ie, not into floating hippies) .. but if there's nothing mystical and magical about him, I'm not turned on.