Youve got a bit of a unique vibe to me. You're the dude that likes to hang out whilest everyone around you is on a mission.
Disregarding the gender issue, I think @Tallulah is quite similar.
I'd put myself up for it if it wasn't for the fact that I think youre quite a bit more mellow then I am. I'm mostly mellow but then there are times I am quite... Hmm, assertive is not quite the word I'm looking for. Perhaps passive-agressively dogmatic is a more accurate statement.