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    resonance entropie's Avatar
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    She is an enfp I send her the test and she send me a test of my handwriting back, she loves tests. She is freshly left by her boyfriend....

    oh good how much luck can one person have, INTUITION is a stron guide
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    Be easy-going and consistent.
    Step into my metaphysical room of mirrors.
    Fear of reality creates myopic morality
    So I guess it means there is trouble until the robins come
    (from Blue Velvet)

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    Depends on your self confidence and what in, whether it's written German or picking your nose.

    thinking of you

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    Before this gets out of control, just please for the love of god don't forget to ask yourself what "tactics" she should be using on you.

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    Control and love hardly works

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    Make her laugh and feel comfortable, show her a little vulnerability.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fidelia View Post
    I thought you already had a gf, entropie?
    ^ I thought that too. I thought they'd been together a long time?

    Entropie, did you guys break up?
    ~ g e t f e s t i v e ! ~


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    want to ask me something? go for it!

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    She still loves her ex boyfriend who cxheated on her multiple times. Thats perfectly understandable cause logically she was last to be informed.

    I did my best to make her invite me to the new Star Trek and tomorrow I will call her on the phone. i was a man as best as a man could be and i think she likes it . If that works I am going to change mys type to istj
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    I agree. Thoughtfulness is good but tactics are going to be a waste of your time. Without knowing the specifics of the situation, the only advice I can give you is that the best route to a (good) relationship is friendship. Just focus on developing the friendship and see where things go from there. The more of a friend you are, the more she's going to trust you and the better the relationship will be, anyway. And if you are close friends and an inability to trust still prevents her from wanting to take things to the next level...then, well, maybe she's not ready for a relationship right now. In that case, my advice to you would be to just let it go. There's always some heartbreak in life, unfortunately, but things will eventually work out for better and for good. Good luck, I hope you get the girl

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    That was me and my boyfriend rewind 2 years. He was gently flirting and intellectually engaging. I pushed away from him initially, but was drawn in by conversation... learning that we were interested in similar topics, had similar values, and enjoyed similar activities. He won me over slowly and steadily. Eventually I began to feel a nascent bond with him. At that point I was able to overcome my own feelings of low self-esteem and agreed to going out with him, just once, even though I was very self-conscious (and still am to a certain extent!).

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