I took that personal DNA test few days ago.
The test said that I have stronger self-confidence then 94% of people who took the test so far.
My question is: Do you think that this percentage is too high?
Personally I think this percentage is great and I am sure that test result is correct.
I say great because I never had a problem whit thinking like - can I do it? , should I be taller, I am fat- help meeeee! ....... and stuff like that.
My thinking is always like : Do I need to do that or there is less difficult way to reach my goals ?
Also I have very strong Introversion which can camouflage the entire thing so people think I am very frightened person who has strong social anxiety problem.
I can sit whit 10 people for 4h at the same table and not start a single conversation.
I simply live in my head and I love it. Also I am sure that immune to insults thing is a part of the same song.
But the catch is that eventuality you have to say something and that means destroying two walls at once. First one is "OH MY GOD HE CAN TALK!!" the other one is that I am far more confident then my appearance/behavior dictates.
When I open my mouth from time to time it is usually because I don't agree whit something or some plan that is represented is flawed by my opinion.
That also means that my very strong J will show its self together whit my Te.
But all of this means that other person sees something like this.
Anxious INFP which turns into verbally aggressive INTJ who would debate you for 6 hours if he has to. And transformation lasts only one second.
I am not saying that I lose my temper. I remain very calm.
Just my way of communication in cases like this is not too friendly.
Every time this happens I can sense that other person is
thinking like WTF” or "What a hell are you?": shock:
I am saying all of this because I am planning offensive in social sphere of my life.
But as an example my parents know me relatively well and when they see me say something like “Ahhh the emperor has arrived! “what is clearly a sarcasm.
So if I want to be more social I will have do something about my communication and be more playful whit other people.
Also I will have to find a way to cover my confidence since I don’t know how to lose it.
By this I mean stop going against everybody in conversations. What is definitively my way of doing things . So far I did never regret for living like this but it looks like that in the future I will need to have plan B and C as options if I want to progress further
On the other hand why spending so much time and resources on confidence when my empathy score was only 2%. This is a part that need “repair”. Because 2% is in sociopath category.
I know I have answered all questions but I am interested in opinions and coments.