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    I hate that I always want to change myself, but never can because [and I hate that..] I have no discipline.
    I hate being an sx because it causes me to obsess over people and they oft don't return the sentiment, which leaves me feeling empty.
    I hate being emotional.
    I hate how much I think, I wish I could just live and stop thinking of the past or the future or fantasies.
    I could go on..

    Good post by the way, this week I've been thinking a lot about how there is always two-sides to a coin. All the things I listed, and everyone else listed have a positive side to them as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Abbey View Post
    Good post by the way, this week I've been thinking a lot about how there is always two-sides to a coin. All the things I listed, and everyone else listed have a positive side to them as well.
    Yes it's so true! It's about managing the negative manifestations of a particular trait in your life so it doesn't impede you as much, and then it's also about appreciating and developing the positive manifestations.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SuchIrony View Post
    If that's all you can think of, you've got it pretty darn good.
    it's the only thing that I can think of that the word HATE would apply to... the rest of my flaws have been recognized, come to terms with and get worked on from time to time, but I don't bother with hating them

    examples of flaws would be:
    -impatient (I even tap my foot behind you in line if I think that you're dallying)
    -perfectionistic (with myself AND others )
    -a bad temper (but I get over it quickly! getting angry makes me happy)
    -tendency to laugh at inappropriate times and places (i.e. funerals)
    -tendency to blush when people look in my direction (very visibly... goes back to the stupid pale skin that I'm cursed with )
    -compulsively count things when unnecessary (train cars, steps taken, words typed... you get the point there)
    -very competitive (losing is for other people )
    -truthful to the point where others would rather I not be (don't ask my opinion unless you want to hear it... I'll get pissed at you if you try and get offended )
    -dipsomaniacal (but it's not that bad as long as I don't take a drink!)
    -vengeful... and I WILL get my vengeance if you've screwed me over
    -I like peace and quiet enough to sympathize with the grinch

    so yes, I have plenty of flaws, but why bother hating them?
    “Oh, we're always alright. You remember that. We happen to other people.” -Terry Pratchett

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    There are lots of areas in which I'm painfully inadequate, but the biggest ones are:

    • my appearance
    • lack of professional skills
    • social ineptitude, awkwardness, and anxiety that makes it quite likely that I'll spend life alone (I'm 41 now, and so far, this is true)
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    it's the only thing that I can think of that the word HATE would apply to... the rest of my flaws have been recognized, come to terms with and get worked on from time to time, but I don't bother with hating them

    examples of flaws would be:
    -impatient (I even tap my foot behind you in line if I think that you're dallying)
    -perfectionistic (with myself AND others )
    -a bad temper (but I get over it quickly! getting angry makes me happy)
    -tendency to laugh at inappropriate times and places (i.e. funerals)
    -tendency to blush when people look in my direction (very visibly... goes back to the stupid pale skin that I'm cursed with )
    -compulsively count things when unnecessary (train cars, steps taken, words typed... you get the point there)
    -very competitive (losing is for other people )
    -truthful to the point where others would rather I not be (don't ask my opinion unless you want to hear it... I'll get pissed at you if you try and get offended )
    -dipsomaniacal (but it's not that bad as long as I don't take a drink!)
    -vengeful... and I WILL get my vengeance if you've screwed me over
    -I like peace and quiet enough to sympathize with the grinch

    so yes, I have plenty of flaws, but why bother hating them?
    We have most of the same flaws. We can hate each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KDude View Post
    We have most of the same flaws. We can hate each other.
    you count train cars too?

    and I don't even hate ME for those traits!

    (worst place I've cracked up surrounded by solemn people? while giving a eulogy at a funeral )
    “Oh, we're always alright. You remember that. We happen to other people.” -Terry Pratchett

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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    you count train cars too?

    and I don't even hate ME for those traits!

    (worst place I've cracked up surrounded by solemn people? while giving a eulogy at a funeral )
    Wait no, not the train cars thing. I just get pissed off and impatient around train cars.

    I've never given a eulogy... or even been to a funeral. It's a preemptive move. I'm no good for it. Don't even ask.

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    I'm drawing a blank on this one.
    "The only time I'm wrong is when I'm questioning myself."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Haight View Post
    I'm drawing a blank on this one.
    You hate that you have friends who play Frisbee golf.

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    I really don't have friends, so . . .
    "The only time I'm wrong is when I'm questioning myself."
    Haight

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