User Tag List

Page 4 of 4 FirstFirst ... 234
Results 31 to 34 of 34

Thread: People I find cool offline tend to be boring online.

  1. #31
    Permabanned Array
    Join Date
    May 2007
    5w6 sp/sx


    I'm actually kinda boring in real life. More boring than on the forum.

  2. #32
    Senior Member Array Jaguar's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2007


    I would never have guessed...
    When all else fails, claim it's rigged.

  3. #33
    lurking Array Rasofy's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2011
    5w6 sp/sx


    Quote Originally Posted by fia View Post
    That seems unexpected that a willingness to discuss ideas would change in the online environment. I would think that is the one thing that would be consistent in different settings. That's the one thing that I've found consistent. I wonder why that is? Maybe people feel more social pressure to respond in a pleasing way irl, but online they express more of what they actually think because they aren't as sensitive to rejection?
    I wonder whether they tend to be mentally exhausted when they use the internet for fun (usually at night). For most people, thinking seems to be draining rather than energizing. No wonder moronic reality shows sell so much.

    Also, I guess many people need more non verbal information in order to adapt their conversations and keep them pleasant.

    Quote Originally Posted by Ivy View Post
    I think some extroverts (note I said some) need the whole "in person" package to be engaged in a conversation. They're interested in ideas primarily as a means to connect with people. My sister seems to be one of these people. She's super fun and a great conversationalist, but spends next to no time online and when she is online she pretty much makes jokes that aren't as funny as they would be if she said them out loud.
    Makes sense.

    A man builds. A parasite asks 'Where is my share?'
    A man creates. A parasite says, 'What will the neighbors think?'
    A man invents. A parasite says, 'Watch out, or you might tread on the toes of God... '


  4. #34
    know ⏩ assist ⏩ survive Array Alaska's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    4w5 sx/sp
    ESI Fi


    Or maybe some people are interested in connecting with others primarily as a means of freeing their best ideas. I remember situations where I had to compare what I came up with alone and what could arise with others: for example, when I was in school, reading a book for class and writing a response before coming in next period and discussing. I always felt so bad turning my written responses in because they were so surface-level and brief and actually less original compared to what flowed in the later exchange with classmates.

Similar Threads

  1. [NT] How often do INTx's find people too cautious and therefore boring
    By yupitsme in forum The NT Rationale (ENTP, INTP, ENTJ, INTJ)
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 06-06-2012, 02:41 AM
  2. Which academic fields tend to have the most interesting people?
    By xisnotx in forum Academics and Careers
    Replies: 50
    Last Post: 03-02-2012, 05:37 AM
  3. Why hide online/offline status?
    By Rasofy in forum The Bonfire
    Replies: 46
    Last Post: 11-23-2011, 11:41 PM
  4. [NT] Any other NTs find poetry BORING??
    By mrcockburn in forum The NT Rationale (ENTP, INTP, ENTJ, INTJ)
    Replies: 108
    Last Post: 06-24-2010, 09:07 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts