When I read the DSM-IV, I have the symptoms of whatever illness I am reading about.
I become entirely the character of whatever movie I am watching.
I will never forget becoming Don Quixote on the streets of Sydney after watching the Man of La Mancha.
My perfect girlfriend would have dinner with me and share the conversation and afterwards....afterwards..... we would go to the movies, where she would hold my hand.
And allow me to completely relax into the main character. But most of all, she would allow me to be the main character, as we walked in the moonlight to coffee afterwards.
Of course the perfect girlfriend would know I am highly suggestible and suggest not only the delightful and the pleasurable, but the good.