Hm. I'm digging on it.
I feel like.. if you are too afraid of being hated, too keen on being loved, then why should anyone really have the balls to love you? To me it sounds like a lack of security in self and a lack of following through in one's guidelines just for the sake of being loved. Not to say everyone has something they need to be hated for, but not fearing the potential of it is what sets some people apart from others.
It resonates in my little ENFJ core because of the common sentiment of self-sacrifice for the sake of harmony, but that quickly reverts back to being a hollow pillar in most cases. A sort of.. stand up through me, though I cannot hold myself up, and we will see how far we tumble in later days.