It sounds like you were injected with a bit of awesome at birth, giving you supernatural abilities of mature observation from a young age.
People are special snow flakes with strange ideologies that run the entire gamut of the spectrum. Being a teenager is indeed a little weird, but it gets better in time. I suspect growing to accept people as they are will help with your frustrations. Control starts with you, blah blah blah.
I know though seriously, thank you. What do you think causes special snowflakes? It's frustrating. How do you do that? While I do argue with people quite a bit, I don't try to waste time in changing anybody because I know it's not my problem.