Why does it seem like people ask others or themselves to prove things about themselves to seem better to some standard someone made up? Why is a non wimpy person better than a wimpy person? Why is a leader better than a follower? Why is being mean something to strive for over being nice. Or even the other way around. Why can't a pushy person just be pushy? Why can't a straightforward person just be straightforward.
It really seems like people should be accepting who they are and growing within the framework of who they are, not trying to be a "less wimpy 9" or an "ISTJ who breaks those stereotypes!"
It's funny to see things phrased in such a negative way when they are acceptable and common human characteristics.
Of course, you could argue that I'm trying to change people who want other people to be less wimpy.